The accusation phase of an RHS (referring to The Prosperos class Releasing the Hidden Splendour) is the I-it stage and the release is the I-thou stage.
Lots of people have sex in the I-it state of mind. Fewer have sex in the I-thou state of mind.
Wherever we look at other people as “its” (kudos to Martin Buber above) we are in trouble. The more we see others as “thous” the more we live in the kind of Kingdom of Heaven which Jesus (as historical figure or metaphor) talked about.
