“Have you ever made ridiculous decisions. Most of have done this many times. We waste our precious life energy on forms of self deception.  Our time could be lived and spent more wisely.”

“I have made a choice but  I really jumped to a conclusion.  I am impulsive!  I say its time to bust myself and come out and be honest about it.

Prejudice and pre judged and made a decision about a person. I have gotten older, I have gotten wiser!  I have because of my avoidance of pain.  Or maybe ilI spent time blaming some outside influences.  Now I STOP and wait while I observe.  No accusations. I don’t victimize myself and others without knowing it.  Even how I reduce things down to how only I look at it.  I look at it from many angles.   Some times I have to be humble and say I am sorry when I do make bad decisions.   I must learn the facts.  Not just what my senses report, but from the evidence of absolute reality.  And infinite birthless Identity helps, to get a universal intelligence as one of the viewpoints.  Not from my personality, but as God views the situation or person.  I don’t have any skin in the game as far as getting anything.  No competition or ambition.  a justice that is universal, not me as a person with my story.

I make decisions based on false information.  Releaive truth or facts are specific.  Absolute is all and everything, so nothing.   We are given false information by others interpretation of a person or situation.   I am sure it has happened to you a zillion times.  You just didn’t know it at the time I am lying to myself and jumping to conclusions.  Right now look back in your life and see what your dailly prejudices have messed up your thinking and made a contract that you been filling, a marriage, a job, a judgement that haunts you and you won’t admit it.  We are mostly in denial about that.  We are never wrong.  I am  smart you say to yourself.  We sometimes defend a decision because of our Pride.  I would have been much happier if I would of slowed down and not thought so premature.  And not wise.  Wisdom is based on observation and consequences from experiences.  Mind AND others!  Take it all in and let it marinade.  Let the flavors of the data mix in the bowl of your conscious observation.  Remember, you don’t get anything out of this in this process.  You just gather and document in your awareness center. We each actually jump to conclusions daily and monthly and with our years we spend.  Spend wisely.  Self observe.  It gives a window to align with what is.  With Infinite Mind or Source.

“I have been looking over the over whelming evidence that is contradictory, sometimes there is hypocritical assumptions and conclusions based on totally false major and minor premises in my thinking.i  We would be so embarrassed if people knew.

So to be smart, and objective, please take take your time.  Observe what is going on from a position of that your not getting thing out of making the decision.  You have no skin in the game.  That allows you to be crystal in your observations, research and perspective.  Try creating an awareness center to just observe from a distance.  Not trying to prove this is right or wrong, or in a grey area between the extremes of your discernment.  Let me know how it goes.  I use a camera visual perspective filming from above.  I even later edit the rushes, as in Hollywood studios I worked in.  Then do your post production and see what you think after editing based on Truth, the facts that you discerned.   You are playing detective with yourself.  IT IS VERY THERAPEUTIC if you try it.  I have for years.  Slow down and watch.  I call it the High Watch.”

Robert McEwen, H.W., M.
Mentor Life Coach
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