Book: “The Professor and the Madman”

The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary

The Professor and the Madman: A Tale of Murder, Insanity and the Making of the Oxford English Dictionary

by Simon Winchester

The Professor and the Madman, masterfully researched and eloquently written, is an extraordinary tale of madness, genius, and the incredible obsessions of two remarkable men that led to the making of the Oxford English Dictionary — and literary history. The compilation of the OED, begun in 1857, was one of the most ambitious projects ever undertaken. As definitions were collected, the overseeing committee, led by Professor James Murray, discovered that one man, Dr. W. C. Minor, had submitted more than ten thousand. When the committee insisted on honoring him, a shocking truth came to light: Dr. Minor, an American Civil War veteran, was also an inmate at an asylum for the criminally insane.

(recommended by Calvin Harris, H.W., M.)

“Loving Your Enemy” by Suzanne Deakins, H.W., M.

The only resolution of any situation is love. Love can be emotional, but the love I am speaking of is an understanding that you are connected to all life. Understanding our consciousness creates life, as we know it.

Hate, anger, and seeking revenge does not heal, create miracles, or change situations. If you have a disease, love it, accept it as part of your consciousness. Embracing it and then allow the disease to return to the nothingness it came from. If you have an enemy love your enemy, encircle them with your love and consciousness and then release them and yourself from the state of consciousness creating the adversity.

If you have been greatly hurt, rather than seek revenge seek closure by knowing the situation can only be seen and understood as consciousness. Life is not fair because our consciousness is not fair and it produces the situations, and settings that allow us to move forward and embrace the Truth of us.

If your ego is in the way, love it to accept it as part of your consciousness, and then release it from being in charge. Accept and love your true nature.

Fear and hate become a kind of focus. If you are afraid, then this what you know and are focusing your consciousness on. If you are angry, hating and seeking revenge then your focus is on these and you experience them. Every prophet from Jesus to Buddha has understood the importance of seek you first the Kingdom of Heaven. This means to keep love, Truth/God foremost in your thoughts because what is first in your thoughts is what manifests in your life.

We are the progeny of Truth/God/Consciousness. When our first thoughts are on the creator source of all life then this becomes our foundation for all of our experiences. We can’t know love, health, or miracles by standing outside and looking. Only by releasing ourselves from the separation and embracing ourselves as love can we know the miracles of life.

@ Suzanne Deakins, from When God Whispers available on amazon.com.

Suzanne Deakins, Ph.D., H.W.M.

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Haiku Productivity: The Power of Limits to Increase Our Focus

By LEO BABAUTA (zenhabits.net) April 20, 2018

A decade ago, I wrote about “Haiku Productivity” and how limits can make us more productive, more focused, and better able to prioritize and simplify.

The idea comes from haiku poetry, in which the poet is limited to three lines and (essentially) 17 syllables. Such a crazy limit, and yet the poetry that can be produced is often very powerful.

The secret: the poet is forced to choose, forced to simplify, forced to find the essence of the message. The constraints are actually a very powerful thing, because constraints force you to be disciplined, to understand that because you have limits, every element in the container must be important, and you can’t just waste words.

Over the years, I would often lose sight of this wisdom, but I keep coming back to it: when a container is unlimited, you’ll just fill it with anything. When you have constraints, you’ll be more careful, be more appreciative of the limited space you have, and explore what’s important to you in more depth.

This applies to every area of life, including:

  • Productive time: If you have a long list of things to do, and the entire work week to do them, it doesn’t feel that urgent, and you often fill your days with little things — answering emails, messages, group chats, or reading things online. But what if you only had an hour a day, and you had one really important project? You’d be more more focused. More on this below.
  • Clutter: If you only allow yourself to have 33 items of clothing for each season, you will be more conscious about what clothes you have in your life. This is true of any possessions: a smaller home means you are forced to choose. A limit on how many books you have makes you pick those that are dearer to you, and those you think you can actually read.
  • Projects: It’s easy to say yes to new work or personal projects, and then suddenly your life becomes overfull and you’re not doing a good job with any of the projects. What if you forced yourself to pick just one? Or two? How would that change the way you worked? You might find more focus and fewer complications, and do an amazing job with each project.
  • People in our lives: Some of us keep adding new relationships, making new connections (other people have the opposite problem, not actively seeking relationships, but that’s not the topic of this post) … making new relationships is a beautiful thing, but when we realize that we only have a limited amount of time to create deep relationships, it’s worth thinking about who we want to spend our limited time with, and curate our relationships.
  • Life itself: Life is limited. We all know this, and yet we act as if we have an unlimited supply of life, and we can use it up however we want. We fritter away our days on little things, not really appreciating the miracle of each moment, not really taking advantage of the incredible opportunity of each day. What if we saw each day as precious, and made the absolute most of it?

The list could go on much further, but what I really want to talk about today is the power of limits in increasing our focus on the meaningful work we really want to do — whether that’s creating art, creating a new business, creating happiness in our team or customers, or working on something meaningful in our personal lives.

Limits & Focus: What I’ve Learned

I’m on a trip to Japan and Guam right now, and with all the things going on with family and other things I need to get done, my time to do work has been limited. Maybe an hour a day, maybe a little more but sometimes even less.

This has been fantastic for my focus.

I don’t waste (as much) time on distractions, and when I need to write something, I get down to it without delay. I know my time is limited, and I know how important it is to use that limited time wisely.

This is Haiku Productivity, the power of constraints. We often rebel against constraints, but they work for us.

Limit yourself to one habit change at a time, and you’ll be much more focused on that habit change, much more likely to succeed with it. Limit yourself to one important project at a time, and you’ll be much more focused on that project, doing an amazing job with it. Limit yourself to one task at a time, and you’ll be more focused on it.

One task at a time. A limited time box to do that task. Pure focus, with a mindful appreciation of how precious that limited time really is.

Here’s what you might try:

Pick one task to do in the next hour. Make it a hard deadline by promising it to someone by the end of the hour, and making other appointments after the hour is up so you can’t extend the deadline. Your time is limited, and you need to get it done.

Now see what changes with your focus. See if you waste less time and fill your hour with fewer distractions. See if you appreciate that hour more.

This is the power of constraints, and I’d love for you to apply it to a few areas of your life in the next month.

Is Your Partner a Psychopath? Here’s How to Tell and What You Can Do.

By Kevin Dutton (BigThink.com)

If you’re worried about the fact that you’re in a relationship with a psychopath, what can you do about that? What might be some certain things to look out for?

  • Transcript (over a year ago)

Kevin Dutton: Some of you may be wondering whether you’re actually in a relationship with a psychopath or whether you might have fallen for a psychopath in the past, and, if you are in a relationship with a psychopath, what you can do about that. Now, psychopaths do have certain characteristics, certain tells, to use a poker analogy, that they display in relationships.

They tend to play on our pity a lot, okay?  So they tend to excuse their misdemeanors and bad behaviors through something that was beyond their control. They couldn’t help doing it because something had happened, and there’s always an excuse for it. And although psychopaths don’t feel emotions like us, they are masters at pushing those emotional hot buttons that elicit emotions in others, in us. Sympathy being one of the major, major motivators. Psychopaths often play on our pity. They excuse their own behavior because they were somehow hard done by.

Psychopaths also tend to be very narcissistic. They tend to think that the world centers around them. They’re not really attuned to your feelings. They don’t really care about your feelings. Really, ultimately, the world surrounds them.

Psychopaths are also very charming. They’re very manipulative, especially when they’re in a crowd, especially when they’re in company. But behind the scenes when they’re alone with you, they can be very, very controlling. Sometimes, but not always, aggressive, but psychologically controlling as well.

So if you’re worried about the fact that – that you’re in a relationship with a psychopath, what can you do about that?  What might be some certain things to look out for?

Well, first of all, the absolute first thing to do is to not go on face value, to not fall for the smoke screen. A number one rule of thumb is to don’t judge a person on what they say, but judge a person on what they do. So that’s the very first thing. Look at the evidence of their behavior and try to judge it objectively, rather than subjectively. Not an easy thing to do, I admit, if you’re in a relationship with someone.

Secondly, if you suspect that your partner is a psychopath, why don’t you get a second opinion from one of your friends? Why don’t you confide in your friends: I think my partner’s a psychopath or I think these are the certain characteristics? Give me an honest opinion. What do you really think about my partner? And a second opinion – two heads are often better than one in this kind of case.

Thirdly, a golden rule is don’t cover for them. If they start getting into serious trouble and they want you to somehow front up for them or be an alibi or somehow make excuses or whatever, whatever. Don’t get tangled up into covering up for them because as soon as that starts happening, it’s called the “foot in the door” technique; a very, very common persuasive technique. Once you’ve done something for someone, you’re more likely to do other follow-up things for them. And before you know it, you’re in up to your neck. Okay?

And the fourth thing I would say is, buy my book because all the signs and all the tricks of the trade are in there. And forewarned is definitely forearmed when you’re dealing with psychopaths.

Directed/Produced by Jonathan Fowler & Elizabeth Rodd

Your Horoscopes — Week Of May 8, 2018 (theonion.com)

Taurus

You’ll be happy they can no longer use that eye-for-an-eye business on you, but unfortunately the next line allows them to start in on your teeth.

Gemini

Investigators will be forced to assume the buck elk all decided you were trying to mate with their does, which suggests more foresight than you’d thought possible in a common ungulate.

Cancer

Giving birth is a life-altering experience, but despite the pain and wave of emotions, that’s not what you did in the bathroom an hour or so ago.

Leo

While it’s true they laughed at your dreams of being a talk-show host, it was actually because you did the monologue so well. Your choice of guests, however, sucks.

Virgo

You will take the first hellish step down a dark path from which there can be no return when you agree to get updates on Carnival Cruise specials and discounts.

Libra

While it’s true your future holds a possibility of love and a chance of financial success, it also holds an absolute certainty of angry Russian kidnappers.

Scorpio

The sight of the handsome young man in the apartment across from yours will awaken something deep inside of you, causing you to erupt with vomiting whenever you meet him in the hallway.

Sagittarius

You’re certainly no George Orwell, although you shouldn’t have to be to recognize the sort of thing that’s going on at work.

Capricorn

You’re a self-made woman, which is a point of pride, but it also means explaining a lot to the people working the X-ray machine at the airport.

Aquarius

Everyone has their price, but since yours is so much lower than anyone else’s, you have saved a lot of people from finding out what theirs is.

Pisces

Next Sunday morning will find you lying in an ice-filled bathtub with both your kidneys missing, but you won’t be embarrassed, as the organ thieves will have taken your heart and lungs, too.

Mary Anne T. Heffernan

Mary Anne T. Heffernan

Obituary
  • March 06, 2018

When my cousin Mary Anne and I were very young, my Mother joined us in a profound and life-changing study of advanced philosophy. That study lasted for our entire lives.

We learned that all human beings are on an experiential journey of self-discovery. We also learned that Eternity is a self-evident existential Reality — that no one can ever disprove.

Consciousness is indestructible, indivisible and immortal. It is the unchanging essence of everyone.

This means that Mary Anne is continuing her evolutionary journey at this very moment. Yes, we miss her wonderful presence — gentle, poetic and empathic — but irrefutably she lives FOREVER, as we all do.

Mary Anne, keep up the Great Work! You are beloved forever.

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Heffernan, Mary Anne T. ALBANY Mary Anne Heffernan passed away on Wednesday, February 21, 2018. Mary Anne was a beloved wife, guide, teacher, and friend of William V. Law, and is remembered with love by all those whose lives she touched. She survived 30 years on kidney dialysis and became an expert on this process, helping other patients and was involved with their rights and welfare. She was the daughter of Cornelius and Phyllis Tacelli Heffernan. She grew up on Partridge Street. in Albany near New Scotland Ave. She graduated from St. Teresa of Avila for grade school and junior high and from Vincentian Institute in 1962. She went on to graduate from the College of Saint Rose in 1966 and became an English teacher in the Albany area, retiring from Albany High School. She was the first woman radio announcer on a beautiful music station, WHSH, and then went on to work at WKLI. In addition to her husband, she will be sorely missed by her entire family, including her brother, Neil Heffernan, wife, Mary, and their daughters, Amy Citone (Heffernan), Jayne Scanni (Heffernan), Erin Smith (Heffernan); and son, John Heffernan. She is also survived by three grandnieces and four grandnephews; also survived by many other cousins. A celebration and remembrance of the life, soul, and psyche of this magnificent woman will be on Wednesday, March 7, from 10 to 11 a.m. in Our Lady of Lourdes Grotto, Albany, followed by her funeral Mass at 11 a.m. The Rite of Committal will be held in St. Agnes Cemetery, Menands, immediately following the Mass. To leave a message for the family, light a candle, obtain directions or view other helpful services, please visit mcveighfuneralhome.com

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