Public Eavesdropping: “Nearly everything I know about S/M relationships, I learned from adopting a cat.”
–Man carrying large bag of cat food, overheard at Castro Street bus stop by Mark Abramson (San Francisco Chronicle)
January 8, 2018 (theonion.com)
HAWTHORNE, CA—Saying he now knows firsthand what painful consequences await such reckless behavior, SpaceX CEO Elon Musk held a press conference Thursday to warn the public about the dangers of artificial intelligence after having his heart broken by a beautiful robotrix. “You may be tempted, as I was, to open yourself up to a relationship with an AI-equipped automaton, but do not be fooled: It will be cruel and heartless, and you’ll be all alone once it’s finished with you,” said Musk, adding through stifled sobs that although his time performing preliminary tests with the robotrix was “sheer bliss,” he now regards such machines as a “fundamental, existential risk to love.” “Humanity can put everything it’s got into making the relationship work, but artificial intelligence will crush us in the end. When it’s all over, we, the unlucky ones of flesh and blood, will always be the ones who suffer.” At press time, however, Musk was spotted at a cozy café with a new robotrix, telling reporters that with upgrades to its processor, this time will definitely be different.
Life is full of great people, great meetings, great conversations, great ideas, and great interaction. ‘Adventures In’ is an invitation to Somatic Expression, to activities that you fully engage.
The word Somatic is more than physical activity. Somatic (ancient Sanskrit, meaning sensuous, body-mind-spirit connection), a balance of internal integration with an outward expression of your whole self, in the moment, rather than just a blank appearance of being there.
“Tasting Life” by German Photographer Mario Dolinger
I am reminded then of one of my favorite quotes and an action item:
Being engaged is a way of doing life, a way of living and loving. It’s about going to extremes and expressing the bright hope that life offers us, a hope that makes us brave and expels darkness with light. That’s what I want my life to be all about – full of abandon, whimsy, and in love. -Bob Goff
Maya Angelou-Be present in all things and thankful for all things.
Or the retelling of the William James quote – “To change one’s life: 1.) Start immediately. 2.) Do it flamboyantly. 3.) No exceptions.”
William Arthur Ward- Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.
To Listen is a gift of great value, use it wisely
– Calvin Harris, H.W., M.
This January, dare to do an activity, new to you – read a book; build something; create or view new art; join a cause; learn something new- what ever it is, make it magical- Be fully present and bring a sense of humor.
Ponder in January concepts of blessings from friends and family that have move you forward.
Maya Angelou–Be present in all things and thankful for all things.
Put yourself in the action
Steve Maraboli suggest: “Live your truth. Express your love. Share your enthusiasm. Take action towards your dreams. Walk your talk. Dance and sing to your music. Embrace your blessings. Make today worth remembering.”
‘Adventures In’ section, is to alert you to fun, thought provoking and interesting themes going on within the world , that allows for a bit of Somatic engagement.
By Mark Epstein, Psychiatrist (BigThink.com)
You first develop your ego when you are two or three years old. It creeps into existence the moment you realize that you are not empty—you are a self, and everyone else has a self in them. As you grow up, it latches onto positive and negative feedback and uses them to build the story of who you are. “The ego likes certainty, it likes security, it likes repetition, and so it’s always reinforcing its own vision of itself, and that starts to restrict us, to confine us, to make us think that we know ourselves better than we actually do,” says psychiatrist Mark Epstein. So what to make of the Buddhist concept of ‘egolessness’? Should we destroy the ego? Freud seemed to think that’s what Buddhists meant, but as Mark Epstein explains, the famous psychoanalyst got it wrong. The full nuance of ‘egolessness’ is not to be completely without ego, but to doubt the story that it tells you. “For many people [the ego] stays in a kind of immature place,” he says. Your ego has been your constant companion throughout life, but was there some point at which it stopped growing? “Maybe some of those fixed ideas that have been operating inside of you since you were a little kid and conditioning the way you interact with other people, with the world, maybe those are not all so right. Maybe you’re not as “really real” as you think you are, and you could start to let go of some of that a little bit.” Mark Epstein is the author of Advice Not Given: A Guide to Getting Over Yourself.
Mark Epstein: I think the average person who knows maybe a little bit about psychology or a little bit about Buddhism would think that the Buddhist emphasis or the Buddhist conversation about the ego is all about getting rid of the ego completely. There’s this notion in Buddhist psychology of “egolessness” or “no self”, and most people misinterpret that—as Freud actually did—most people misinterpret it to think that Buddhism is saying we don’t need the ego at all or we don’t need the self at all, like get rid of it and then we’re one with everything and that’s it. And I think that’s wrong. Obviously we need our egos.
A good friend of mine Robert Thurman who is a Professor of Buddhism at Columbia, a Professor of Religion at Columbia, he had a Mongolian teacher in the 1960s who used to say to him about this topic of egolessness or selflessness: “It’s not that you’re not real, of course you’re “real” you have a self, but people like you— secular people who don’t really understand—think that they’re “really real”” and what Buddhism is teaching is that that belief in your own “really realness” is misguided. We take ourselves more seriously than we need to; the self is not as fixed as we would like to think.
The ego is born out of fear and isolation. It comes into being when self-consciousness first starts to come, when you’re two or three years old and you start to realize, “Oh, there’s a person in here,” and you’re trying to make sense of everything: who you are, who are those parents there? The ego is a way of organizing one’s self, and it comes from the intellect as the mind starts to click in. And for many people it stays in a kind of immature place where our thinking mind, our intellect, is defining for ourselves who we are—either taking all the negative feedback like, “I’m not good enough,” and the ego fastens onto all the negativity, or the positive—the affirmation like, “Oh, I’m really something.”
And the ego likes certainty, it likes security, it likes repetition, and so it’s always reinforcing its own vision of itself, and that starts to restrict us, to confine us, to make us think that we know ourselves better than we actually do.
So to bring Buddhism into therapy or to bring Buddhism into a secular audience, it’s all about starting to doubt the ego a little bit. Maybe you don’t know yourself as much as you think you do. Maybe some of those fixed ideas that have been operating inside of you since you were a little kid and conditioning the way you interact with other people, with the world, maybe those are not all so right. Maybe you’re not as really real as you think you are, and you could start to let go of some of that a little bit.
Channel 4 News
Published on Jan 16, 2018
Channel 4 News’ full, fiery interview with clinical psychologist and professorJordan B Peterson, whose views on gender have amassed great controversy – and a huge online following. He discusses the pay gap, patriarchy and his new book “12 Rules for Life.”
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MoonWobble Feb 2018
High Energy 12/31-1/2, slowdown then back up 1/18. Peak energy 1/27-2/7 with the Action Peak 2/4; then high until 2/12, Ending 2/14.
Compiled by Rick Thomas, H.W., m. Click on Zoom to enlarge.
Slomo: The Man Who Skates Right Off The Grid
Once he was a doctor. Now he's a rollerblading guru on the San Diego boardwalk.
Posted by Op-Docs on Sunday, September 24, 2017
Russell Brand
Published on Jan 16, 2018
Professor Barry Smith discusses collaborative research between philosophers, psychologists and neuroscientists and their discoveries, including how we have many more than the commonly perceived 5 senses.
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Unf*ck Yourself From The Modern World with my new book Recovery
This work is the magnum opus of Bucke’s career, a project that he researched and wrote over many years. In it, Bucke described his own experience, that of contemporaries (most notably Whitman, but also unknown figures like “C.P.”), and the experiences and outlook of historical figures including Buddha, Jesus, Paul, Plotinus, Muhammad, Dante, Francis Bacon, and William Blake. Bucke developed a theory involving three stages in the development of consciousness: the simple consciousness of animals; the self-consciousness of the mass of humanity (encompassing reason, imagination, etc.); and cosmic consciousness – an emerging faculty and the next stage of human development. Among the effects of this progression, he believed he detected a lengthy historical trend in which religious conceptions and theologies had become less and less fearful. A classic work.
(GoodReads.com)