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If You Only Read A Few Books In 2024, Read These

Ryan Holiday

Ryan Holiday

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One of my favorite quotes — enough that I have it inscribed on the wall across the back of my bookstore — comes from the novelist Walter Mosley. “I’m not saying that you have to be a reader to save your soul in the modern world,” he said. “I’m saying it helps.”

2024 promises us nothing but the same craziness as last year and every year before it. Maybe even new and worse ones. Almost half the world is going to vote for new leaders this year. Who will they choose? Conflicts simmer, which ones will explode? The only certainty about this upcoming year is uncertainty. Good things will happen. Bad things will happen. Things will happen.

What are you going to do about it? Will you be ready? Can you handle it?

Books are an investment in yourself — investments that come in many forms: novels, nonfiction, how-to, poetry, classics, biographies. They are a way to learn about what’s happened in the past. They’re a way for you to learn about people and human nature. They help you think more clearly, be kinder, see the bigger picture, and improve at the things that matter to you. Books are a tradition that stretches back thousands of years and stretches forward to today, where people are still publishing distillations of countless hours of hard thinking on hard topics. Why wouldn’t you avail yourself of this wisdom?

With that in mind, here are a bunch of books — some new, some old — that will help you meet the goals that matter for 2024, that will help you live better and be better. You can also get this collection at my bookstore, The Painted Porch.

The Greek Way by Edith Hamilton

Marcus Aurelius’ life was changed by a single book. In book 1 of Meditations, Marcus thanks his philosophy teacher Rusticus “for introducing me to Epictetus’s lectures — and loaning me his own copy.” In Rusticus handing Marcus a book and Marcus reading that book — the arc of history was changed. The Greek Way is another in the category of loaned books that changed the arc of history. On a ski vacation in 1964, Robert Kennedy was loaned a copy of The Greek Way and ended up spending most of the trip in his room reading it. It’s a wonderful little discussion of what made the Greeks so special, what they can teach us, and how they thought about life. Anyone who has a gift for communicating ancient ideas in a modern context is a hero in my eyes — and in this case, Edith Hamilton proved why. By writing about the Greeks in such an accessible and inspiring way she ended up changing the political trajectory of the entire Kennedy family.

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

For this piece two years ago, I recommended this new annotated edition by Robin Waterfield. I’m a champion of the Gregory Hays translation, but reading a new translation of a book you’ve read (or love) is a great way to see the same ideas from a new angle…or find new ideas you missed on the previous go-arounds. Marcus, like Heraclitus, believed we never step in the same river twice. More recently, I had a similar experience. Since my 16-year-old (nearly) completely marked-up copy was starting to get a little worse for wear, I created a premium edition designed to stand the test of time, just like the content inside. That’s the amazing thing about reading Marcus — whichever translation you go with — year after year, he feels both incredibly timely and incredibly timeless. There’s a reason this book has endured for almost twenty centuries (here are some lessons from me having read Meditations more than 100 times). If you haven’t read Marcus Aurelius or if you have…you should read this book and then read it again.

The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

There are some awful people and awful movements on the march around the world. This feels new, but of course it’s not–these people have always existed. The problem is they are just not well understood. Worse, good people are not often armed with the tools (or the cunning) to defeat or to effectuate change. If you want to live life on your terms, climb as high as you know you’re capable, and avoid being controlled by others — you need to read this book. You’ll leave not just with actionable lessons, but an indelible sense of what to do in many trying and confusing situations. You also have to check out the 25th anniversary edition. It’s one of the coolest designed books I’ve ever seen (and the 48 Laws of Power was already beautifully designed). If you flip the gold pages one direction, you see Machiavelli’s hidden face…and if you flip them the other direction, Robert’s face appears. It’s an amazing version of an amazing book which I continue to think everyone needs to read. Is there a darkness to this book? Yes. But there is a darkness to life, too. You have to understand it and be able to defend against it. If you don’t want to read it because you think it’s ‘immoral,’ well then you definitely need to read it, as I explain in this video.

The Choice: Embrace the Possible by Dr. Edith Eva Eger

I told Dr. Edith Eger I felt guilty about someone I had lost touch with and only recently reconnected with. She cut me off and told me she could give me a gift that would solve that guilt right now. “I give you a sentence,” she said, “One sentence — if I knew then what I know now, I would have done things differently.” That’s the end of that, she said. “Guilt is in the past, and the one thing you cannot change is the past.” Dr. Eger is a complete hero of mine. At 16-years-old, she’s sent to Auschwitz. And how does this not break a person? How do they survive? How do they endure the unendurable? And how do they emerge from this, not just not broken, but cheerful and happy and of service to other people? The last thing Dr. Eger’s mother said to her before she was sent to the gas chambers was that very Stoic idea: even when we find ourselves in horrendous situations, we can always choose how we respond to them, who we’re going to be inside of them, what we’re going to hold onto inside of them. Dr. Eger quotes Frankl, who she later studied under, “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms — to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” It was this idea that allowed Dr. Eger to not only endure unimaginable suffering, but to find meaning in it. She went on to become a psychologist and survives to this day, still seeing patients and helping people overcome trauma. I’ve had the incredible honor of interviewing Dr. Eger twice (here and here) and the joy and energy of this woman, this 95-year-old Holocaust survivor, is just incredible.

Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life by Arnold Schwarzenegger

Arnold’s life is the American dream, and his book, to me, is an important corollary to that dream–you have to pay back the gift by being of service, being useful to others. I really enjoyed this book and was lucky enough to interview him twice for it, once in Los Angeles in his Bavarian-themed office (listen to the episode here or watch it on YouTube) and then again on stage at the 92nd Street Y in New York City (listen here). He’s had an incredible life. Seriously, it’s a great book. We could use more useful people this year.

Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be by Dr. Becky Kennedy

My wife recommended Dr. Becky’s work. I should know by now to put such books at the very top of my to-read pile, but this one took a while to get to. I regret that because WOW this book is good! I could only make it a couple pages at a time before I had to just stop and think. And then to go back through it for my notecard system took equally long, there was just so much stuff I had to get down. I’ve already written close to a dozen Daily Dad emails about lessons from the book — from parenting anxieties and frustrations to being present and asking tough questions. But as much as this is a parenting book, it’s also just classic Stoic principles — because what is parenting but stress, situations you don’t control, worry, anxiety, fear, fatigue and frustration? I took so much out of this bookI interviewed Dr. Becky, too but you just HAVE to read this book.

The Storm Before The Storm by Mike Duncan

One of my reading rules is: If you want to understand current events, don’t rely on breaking news. Find a book about a similar event in the past. To understand the things we must be so careful about in our own politics today, why norms must be respected, why problems can’t be kicked down the road, why populism is so dangerous — read this book. The overthrow of the Roman Republic didn’t just happen. It wasn’t just Julius Caesar, it wasn’t just one man’s ambition that undid some 450 years worth of work. As Duncan writes (and talks about in our podcast episode together), many events in the decades prior contributed to the republic’s fall. And we must understand those events so that we don’t repeat them.

It Can’t Happen Here by Sinclair Lewis

Like I said, we understand what’s happening now by understanding what has happened in the past. It’s also true that fiction helps us understand the human heart and the events of history more than nonfiction can. This book is one that will make you so uncomfortable you’ll probably pick it up and put it down several times. It almost shocks you that this exists, that it’s not some work of fiction pretending to be 80 years old. But no. In fact, one of America’s most famous writers wrote a bestselling novel about an appalling populist demagogue who won the presidency of the United States. Life imitates art. Change the dates, places and names and it’s no longer fiction, it’s real. Fiction is best when it puts a mirror up to us. This book does that. If you don’t read the book, at least please read about it. Because you need to know. It can happen here.

Leadership: In Turbulent Times by Doris Kearns Goodwin

This is an absolutely incredible book. I think I marked up nearly every page. The book is a study of Abraham Lincoln, Theodore Roosevelt, FDR and Lyndon Johnson. It is so clearly the culmination of a lifetime of research… and yet somehow not overwhelming or boring. Distillation at its best! I have read extensively on each of those figures and I got a ton out of it. Even stuff I already knew, I benefited from Goodwin’s perspective. This is the perfect book to read right now — a timely reminder that leadership matters. Or, as the Stoics say: character is fate. Or, as I wrote about in this piece about leadership during the plague in ancient Rome: when things break down, good leaders have to stand up.

The Creative Act by Rick Rubin

There is perhaps no one better qualified than Rick Rubin to help people tap into their creativity. I think it will quickly become one of those The War of Art type of books — one that artists keep close by and return to routinely. I wrote quite a bit about Rubin in Perennial Seller and no doubt would have sourced from this book if it had existed back then. But my basic summary of this book is: Instead of trying to be creative, try to get an environment/a mindset/a practice that is conducive to creativity and let things happen. It’s like Zen in the Art of Archery. You let the arrow fall like ripe fruit. I interviewed Rick Rubin on The Daily Stoic Podcast, listen here.

The Daily Pressfield by Steven Pressfield

I’ve always loved the “daily read” format. I’ve recommended some of my favorites here before, I’ve been lucky enough to publish two of my own (here and here), and now I feel even luckier to have this new collection by one of my writing heroes, Steven Pressfield. No matter what you’re trying to do this year, you’ll almost certainly battle The Resistance in pursuit of it. This is a great book to help you in that battle. Even though I’ve read and reread all of Steven’s books, this book has not left my desk since I got my copy (which adds to my regular practice of re-reading The War of Art before every project I start). I was very glad to have him out to interview him about the book, too. You can listen to our conversation here (or watch on YouTube).

Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I’d Known Earlier by Kevin Kelly

This book of advice is a great one for any professional, parent, or person. Kevin Kelly always thinks about things in a unique way and manages to distill a lot of experience down into a memorable, actionable bit of wisdom. I enjoyed this…and I wish more smart people wrote books like this. It was a real treat to get to interview him in person in the new Daily Stoic podcast studio (here’s a clip of him and I talking about why reading is so important).

The Expanding Circle by Peter Singer

Even though Stoicism is a ruggedly individual philosophy, at the core of it is this idea of “the circles of concern.” Our first concern, the Stoics said, is ourselves. Then our family, our community, our country, our world, all living things. The work of philosophy is to draw these concerns inward — to learn to care about as many people as possible, to do as much good as possible. When I had Peter Singer on the podcast, he mentioned this book. He chanced on a similar metaphor, not knowing its Stoic origins. I ended up getting The Expanding Circle, about expanding our focus on the welfare of family and friends to include, ultimately, all of humanity — animals, the environment, all of it.

Atomic Habits by James Clear

It’s when things are chaotic and crazy, when the world feels like it’s falling apart, that we most need to develop good habits. I think about James Clear’s concept of atomic habits on a regular basis. To me, this is a sign of a great book — that even just thinking about the title has an impact on you. I love the double meaning of the word atomic — not just meaning explosive habits, but also focusing on the smallest possible size of habit, the tiniest step you can take to start the chain reaction that can in fact lead to explosive results.

Zen in the Art of Archery by Eugen Herrigel and The Way of Baseball: Finding Stillness at 95 mph by Shawn Green

These are ultimately not books about archery or baseball, but about zen and the mastery of the soul. Both are great, accessible books about peace and peak performance that don’t hit you over the head with Buddhism, yoga, meditation, or any of that. The Way of Baseball is about how Shawn Green struggled as a major league baseball player and through repetitive, simple practice turned himself into one of the best home run hitters in the game. Even if you don’t like sports, I promise you will get a lot out of them.

Gift From The Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh

I always associated Charles Lindbergh with Hawaii because when I was a kid, I visited his grave at the end of the road to Hana in Maui. I was totally surprised to find this book at one of my favorite bookstores, Sundog Books, in one of my favorite places in the world, 30A in Florida. It’s a beautiful philosophical book about rest and relaxation. For each chapter, Lindbergh takes a shell from the beach as the starting point for a meditation on topics like solitude, love, happiness, contentment, and so on. For a 67-year-old book, it feels surprisingly modern — especially, I would think, for women. The only thing I didn’t like about this book is that I didn’t read it when I was writing Stillness is the Key as I almost certainly would have quoted it many times. In any case, pair Lindbergh’s book with Stillness. Because the future belongs to those with the ability to focus, be creative, and think at a high level. And that’s what stillness is — that quiet moment when inspiration hits you, that ability to step back and reflect, that ability to make room for gratitude and happiness regardless of what’s going on around you. It’s one of the most powerful forces on earth. We will all need stillness in 2024 and beyond.

As I have published different versions of this piece over the last couple of years (201820192020202120222023), I made one final recommendation worth repeating: Pick 3–4 titles that have had a big impact on you in the past and commit to reading them again. Seneca talked about how you need to “linger among a limited number of master thinkers, and digest their works, if you would derive ideas which shall win firm hold in your mind.”

We never read the same book twice. Because we’ve changed. The perceptions about the book have changed. What we’re going through in this very moment is new and different. So this year, go reread The Great Gatsby. Give The Odyssey another chance. Sit with a few chapters from The 48 Laws of Power. See how these books have stood the test of time and see how you’ve changed since you’ve read them last.

It can be some of the best time you spend with a book this year. Happy reading!

Ryan Holiday

Written by Ryan Holiday

Bestselling author of ‘Conspiracy,’ ‘Ego is the Enemy’ & ‘The Obstacle Is The Way’ http://amzn.to/24qKRWR

Justin Torres, Author of ‘Blackouts,’ Wins National Book Award for Fiction

Ned Blackhawk received the nonfiction award, with “The Rediscovery of America: Native Peoples and the Unmaking of U.S. History.”

A group of formally dressed people, some with medals on ribbons around their necks, gather on a stage.
Justin Torres, center, winner of the National Book Award for fiction, is surrounded by other winners and finalists who came to the stage for the reading of a plea for a cease-fire in the Middle East.Credit…Karsten Moran for The New York Times
Elizabeth A. Harris
Alexandra Alter

By Elizabeth A. Harris and Alexandra Alter

Published Nov. 15, 2023 Updated Nov. 16, 2023 (NYTimes.com)

The National Book Award ceremony took a political turn on Wednesday night, as the event concluded with a joint statement from a group of writers who called for a cease-fire in Gaza.

For the final award of the night, Justin Torres received the fiction prize for “Blackouts,” his widely acclaimed, genre-defying novel about erasure and queer history. As Torres gave his speech, more than a dozen other nominees from different categories joined him on the stage. They stood behind Aaliyah Bilal, a finalist in the fiction category for her short story collection “Temple Folk,” as she read the statement.

“On behalf of the finalists, we oppose the ongoing bombardment of Gaza and call for a humanitarian cease-fire to address the urgent humanitarian needs of Palestinian civilians, particularly children,” Bilal said. “We oppose antisemitism and anti-Palestinian sentiment and Islamophobia equally, accepting the human dignity of all parties, knowing that further bloodshed does nothing to secure lasting peace in the region. ”

While the conflict in the Middle East was referenced repeatedly over the evening, most of the ceremony focused on literary issues, like the power of literature to broaden perspectives, and the dangers of censorship and the threat of growing book bans.

The ceremony’s host, LeVar Burton, an actor and literacy advocate who hosted the PBS series “Reading Rainbow” for more than 20 years, has been pushing back on book bans and restrictions around the country, which have been a growing concern for authors and publishers in recent years.

“There’s a reason why books are under attack,” Burton said at the beginning of the ceremony. “It’s because they’re so powerful.”

ImageOprah Winfrey, special guest at the ceremony at Cipriani Wall Street, spoke ardently about the fact that many banned books captured the experiences of diverse cultures. LeVar Burton, the host, is in the background.Credit…Karsten Moran for The New York Times

After Burton’s opening remarks, Oprah Winfrey, whose book club made her a major force in the literary world, took the stage and made a passionate case against banning books. Winfrey described how the book bans spreading across the country have often targeted titles that feature diverse characters and L.G.B.T.Q. themes, and argued that censorship is driving polarization and dividing communities.

“To ban books is to cut us off from one another,” she said. “To ban books is to strangle off what sustains us and makes us better people: connection and compassion, empathy, understanding.”

Much of the evening, a black-tie affair at Cipriani Wall Street in New York, was devoted to celebrating literature and the work of the National Book Foundation. This year’s awards ceremony was the 74th, and publishers submitted 1,931 books for consideration.

ImageNed Blackhawk, accepting the National Book Award for nonfiction, for a retelling of American history from a Native American perspective.Credit…Karsten Moran for The New York Times

Ned Blackhawk won the nonfiction award for “The Rediscovery of America: Native Peoples and the Unmaking of U.S. History,” a retelling of U.S. history that centers on Indigenous people, and tells the intertwined histories of Native and non-Native people over five centuries, from the Spanish colonial era to the late 20th century.

The award for translated literature went to “The Words That Remain” by Stênio Gardel, which was translated from the Portuguese by Bruna Dantas Lobato, and centers on an old man who reflects back on a clandestine romance that he had with his best friend as a teenager.

Get Caught Up With These Prior Winners

  1. book cover for Between the World and MeBetween the World and Meby Ta-Nehisi Coates
    Structured as a letter to his teenage son, this slender volume is a searching exploration of what it is to grow up Black in a country built on slave labor and “the destruction of Black bodies.”Read our full review.
  2. book cover for The Year of Magical ThinkingThe Year of Magical Thinkingby Joan Didion
    Days after their daughter was hospitalized, Didion’s husband died of a heart attack. This shattering memoir is her effort to process that terrible period and “cut loose any fixed idea I had ever had about death, about illness, about probability and luck.”Read our full review.
  3. book cover for Trust ExerciseTrust Exerciseby Susan Choi
    A postmodern examination of memory and power, this novel focuses on students at a performing arts high school in the 1980s in thrall to a charismatic teacher.Read our full review.
  4. book cover for Just KidsJust Kidsby Patti Smith
    The singer reflects affectionately on her deep relationship with the photographer Robert Mapplethorpe, but the book is equally a memoir of 1970s New York, a heady time for poetry, rock and roll and art.Read our full review.
  5. book cover for The CorrectionsThe Correctionsby Jonathan Franzen
    As the Lamberts stare down several crises — failed relationships, ignominous professional ends and mental health — their mother, Enid, tries to convene the family for a last Christmas celebration.Read our full review.
  6. book cover for The Good Lord BirdThe Good Lord Birdby James McBride
    Narrated by a freed slave boy who passes as a girl, this novel is a romp about John Brown’s violent crusade against slavery. For all its zingers, the book honors history, and includes rich period detail.Read our full review.

“Being here tonight as a gay man, receiving this award for a novel about another gay man’s journey to self acceptance, I wanted to say to everyone who ever felt wrong about themselves that your heart and your desire are true, and you are just as deserving as anybody else of having a fulfilling life and accomplishing impossible dreams,” Gardel, who shared the prize with his translator, said in an emotional acceptance speech.

The award for young people’s literature was given to the author and illustrator Dan Santat for “A First Time for Everything,” his graphic memoir about awkward middle school experiences inspired by a class trip in Europe.

The poetry winner, Craig Santos Perez, who is from Guam and received the award for the collection “from unincorporated territory [åmot],” said he hoped to inspire the next generation of Pacific Islander authors.

ImageCraig Santos Perez, who received the poetry award for “from unincorporated territory [åmot],” said he hoped to inspire the next generation of authors who are Pacific Islanders. He is from Guam.Credit…Karsten Moran for The New York Times

In addition to the prizes announced on Wednesday, the National Book Foundation awarded two lifetime achievement prizes. Rita Dove won the Medal for Distinguished Contribution to American Letters for her body of work, which includes 11 books of poetry. Dove was the first Black poet laureate of the United States in the 1990s. The Literarian Award for Outstanding Service to the American Literary Community was presented to Paul Yamazaki, the principal buyer at City Lights Booksellers & Publishers in San Francisco.

Occasionally, the subject of the war in Israel and Gaza was raised. The poet Heid E. Erdrich, who introduced the poetry winner, referenced how “human suffering in Gaza is at the forefront of our thoughts” and noted that “poetry is what we reach for in our grief.”

A few days before the ceremony, rumors spread that a group of finalists planned to make some sort of statement about the war in Gaza, but sponsors and organizers didn’t know what that might entail. Two sponsors, Zibby Media and Book of the Month, decided not to attend the ceremony and Zibby Media pulled its sponsorship altogether.

It’s not unusual for politics and global events to drive the conversation and speeches at the National Book Awards. In the past, winners have spoken out against racism in America, the lack of diversity in publishing and threats to free expression as book bans have risen around the country.

Since the attack on Israel by Hamas militants on Oct. 7, and Israel’s subsequent military campaign in Gaza, literary and cultural institutions have been wrestling with how to respond to the conflict. Recently, several literary events have been disrupted or canceled. On Monday night, pro-Palestinian demonstrators interrupted a literary award ceremony in Canada, at one point taking the stage and holding up a sign that accused Scotiabank, which provides funding for the Scotiabank Giller Prize, of funding genocide. Some events featuring Palestinian artists and writers have been canceled or postponed, including at the Frankfurt Book Fair.

The collective call for a cease-fire drew applause from some attendees at the National Book Awards, but the remarks did not seem to be as polarizing or disruptive as organizers had feared. On Tuesday, after reports that some sponsors planned to skip the ceremony, the National Book Foundation issued a statement to quell the brewing controversy, noting that political statements have been issued by winners in the past.

ImageAaliyah Bilal, a finalist for her short story collection “Temple Folk,” reads a statement of unity against the Israel-Hamas war at the end of the ceremony.Credit…Karsten Moran for The New York Times

“Over the years, these speeches have been poignant, funny, moving, at times political, and even, occasionally, controversial,” the statement said. “At their best, these honored authors’ words enrich, enlighten, and inform us all.”

Elizabeth A. Harris writes about books and publishing for The Times.  More about Elizabeth A. Harris

Alexandra Alter writes about publishing and the literary world. Before joining The Times in 2014, she covered books and culture for The Wall Street Journal. Prior to that, she reported on religion, and the occasional hurricane, for The Miami Herald. More about Alexandra Alter

(Contributed by Michael Kelly, H.W.)

6 Books That Will Redefine (Almost) Everything You Thought You Knew

They are about to shake your brain out of its comfort zone

Margaret Pan

Margaret Pan

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In a world saturated with information, where facts seem fluid and truths can be elusive, one might wonder: do we truly understand the essence of what we know?

The journey of intellectual discovery begins with a single step — the step of questioning.

Here are six books that will make you question — and redefine — everything you thought you knew.

#1. Everything is Obvious by Duncan J. Watts

Genre: Psychology/Sociology
Redefines: The concept of common sense, fitting events into neat narratives

Photo credit: Goodreads

Common sense often fails you.

It misleads you into believing that you understand more about the world of human behavior than you do.

Enter “hindsight bias”, the “oh, I knew it all along” phenomenon that often leads us to believe that events were predictable or obvious after they’ve occurred.

The book examines how our intuitive thinking often tricks us into seeing cause-and-effect relationships where they don’t actually exist. With various examples from history, economics, and daily life, it explores the limitations of common sense to demonstrate how our reliance on simplistic explanations can hinder our ability to understand the world.

Offering valuable insights into the psychology of decision-making, the fallacy of hindsight, and the complexities of human behavior, the book will challenge you to rethink your understanding of social dynamics.

“What appear to us to be causal explanations are in fact just stories — descriptions of what happened that tell us little, if anything, about the mechanisms at work.”

“When we challenge our assumptions about the world — or even more important, when we realize we’re making an assumption that we didn’t even know we were making — we may or may not change our views. But even if we don’t, the exercise of challenging them should at least force us to notice our own stubbornness, which in turn should give us pause.”
― Duncan J. Watts, Everything is Obvious: Once You Know the Answer

#2. Factfulness by Hans, Ola, & Anna Rosling

Genre: Economics/Psychology
Redefines: Your thoughts and assumptions about the state of the world

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Everyone says everything in the world is getting worse.

Well, that’s a myth — and this book will challenge you to rethink your assumptions about the state of the world.

It presents a wealth of data and statistics to show that, despite the many challenges and problems we face as a global society, the world is actually getting better in many ways.

Τhe authors demonstrate how our perceptions of the world are often distorted by biases, misconceptions, and incomplete information and offer practical strategies for overcoming these biases and developing a more fact-based understanding of the world.

What makes the book such a compelling read for me is the way it combines rigorous analysis with a deeply humanistic and optimistic outlook. The authors are not naïve about the challenges we face. Still, they also believe that by looking at the data objectively and developing a more accurate understanding of the world, we can create a better future.

“People often call me an optimist, because I show them the enormous progress they didn’t know about. That makes me angry. I’m not an optimist. That makes me sound naive. I’m a very serious “possibilist.”

“Ηuman beings have a strong dramatic instinct toward binary thinking, a basic urge to divide things into two distinct groups, with nothing but an empty gap in between. We love to dichotomize. Good versus bad. Heroes versus villains. My country versus the rest.”
― Hans Rosling, Factfulness: Ten Reasons We’re Wrong About the World — and Why Things Are Better Than You Think

#3. The Honest Truth About Dishonesty by Dan Ariely

Genre: Psychology/Economics
Redefines: Your perception of honesty and deceit

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It’s funny how people lie, cheat, and deceive, even when they consider themselves to be honest individuals.

This book offers a captivating exploration of the gray area between honesty and deceit.

The author presents a series of experiments and real-world examples to uncover the underlying factors that lead us to engage in dishonest actions. He also skillfully uncovers the cognitive tricks they employ to justify our dishonest actions, highlighting the gap between our moral ideals and our actual behaviors.

Overall, it’s a thought-provoking read that will prompt you to question your assumptions about human behavior and provide a window into the complex interplay of psychology, ethics, and decision-making.

“The more cashless our society becomes, the more our moral compass slips.”

“We all want explanations for why we behave as we do and for the ways the world around us functions. Even when our feeble explanations have little to do with reality. We’re storytelling creatures by nature, and we tell ourselves story after story until we come up with an explanation that we like and that sounds reasonable enough to believe.”
― Dan Ariely, The Honest Truth About Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone — Especially Ourselves

#4. Irresistible by Adam Alter

Genre: Science & Technology
Redefines: Your understanding of technology’s influence, the balance between technology use and well-being

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Ever wondered why technology has such a pervasive influence on our lives?

Why smartphones, social media platforms, video games, and other digital experiences are engineered to be so addictive?

The answers are in this book: it delves into the psychology behind our compulsive use of these technologies, explaining how they tap into our innate desires for reward, pleasure, and connection.

Combining engaging storytelling with extensive research, it sheds light on how tech companies employ persuasive design techniques to create products that capture our attention, often leading to addictive habits that can have detrimental effects on our well-being.

However, Alter’s book doesn’t merely critique technology; it also suggests ways one can become more mindful of their tech usage and regain control over their life. If you’re seeking ways to maintain a healthier relationship with digital devices, this book is for you.

“To some extent we all need losses and difficulties and challenges, because without them the thrill of success weakens gradually with each new victory. That’s why people spend precious chunks of free time doing difficult crosswords and climbing dangerous mountains — because the hardship of the challenge is far more compelling than knowing you’re going to succeed.”

“There isn’t a bright line between addicts and the rest of us. We’re all one product or experience away from developing our own addictions.”
― Adam Alter, Irresistible: The Rise of Addictive Technology and the Business of Keeping Us Hooked

#5. You Are Not So Smart by David McRaney

Genre: Psychology/Science
Redefines: Your assumptions about your own cognitive abilities

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Our stupid beliefs make us feel wise.

This probably doesn’t come as a big surprise, but humans aren’t the rational creatures we think we are.

Most of the time we don’t see the world as it really is. From the number of friends we have on Facebook to the smartphones we choose to purchase, we’re constantly deluding ourselves.

The culprits responsible for our errors in thinking? Cognitive biases, heuristics, and logical fallacies.

In this spectacular book, the author examines how our biases taint our perception of the world, by delving into a wide range of psychological research and breaking down 48 psychology concepts. It’s an excellent resource for anyone curious about the intricacies of human behavior and psychology, and one that can help you develop a greater awareness of your own mental processes.

If you think you know anything about the way your brain makes decisions, prepare to be surprised.

“THE MISCONCEPTION: You are a rational, logical being who sees the world as it really is. THE TRUTH: You are as deluded as the rest of us, but that’s OK, it keeps you sane.”

“You can’t rage against the machine through rebellious consumption.”

“We reach for the same brand not because we trust its quality but because we want to reassure ourselves that we made a smart choice the last time we bought it.”
― David McRaney, You Are Not So Smart

#6. The Filter Bubble by Eli Pariser

Genre: Science & Technology
Redefines: Everything surrounding personalized content and online interactions

Photo credit: Goodreads

Everything you do online is filtered. These filters are used to shape your online experience and limit your exposure to diverse viewpoints.

In other words, personalized algorithms and recommendation systems (e.g., used by Google or Facebook) have significant (unintended) negative consequences.

The book delves into the mechanisms behind these algorithms, explaining how they select and present content based on user behavior, preferences, and demographic information and illustrates how we are increasingly exposed to information that aligns with our existing views — often missing out on important perspectives.

It’s a wake-up call to the fact that while we think we’re navigating the vast sea of the internet, we often end up just staying in our comfortable spot of biased information.

“A world constructed from the familiar is the world in which there’s nothing to learn.”

“The filter bubble tends to dramatically amplify confirmation bias — in a way, it’s designed to. Consuming information that conforms to our ideas of the world is easy and pleasurable; consuming information that challenges us to think in new ways or question our assumptions is frustrating and difficult.” — Eli Pariser, The Filter Bubble: What the Internet is Hiding From You

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