What is seagulling?

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In dating and relationship contexts, “seagulling” someone refers to a type of manager that is perceived as ineffective, noisy, and disruptive

. This term is a derogatory comparison based on the behavior of seagulls, which are often associated with swooping in, making a lot of noise, and leaving a mess for others to deal with. 

In a personal relationship, seagulling means someone who: 

  • Flies in, makes a lot of noise: This person suddenly appears in the other person’s life, often with a dramatic or loud display of interest or emotion.
  • Dumps on everything: They disrupt the person’s life, possibly with problems, demands, or drama.
  • Flies away again: They disappear just as suddenly as they arrived, leaving the other person to clean up the emotional fallout or deal with the consequences of their actions. 

The person on the receiving end of “seagulling” is often left confused and hurt by the erratic and selfish behavior. This behavior is considered immature and inconsiderate and is not a healthy way to treat another person.

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